Venting

VENTTTTTING something on facebook triggered this venting session, so Im starting with recent stuff that I have noticed...and Im going on to ANYTHING & EVERYTHING from my life:

I hate people that go out LOOKING FOR DRAMA. Just because someone posts something on facebook doesn't mean that everyone has to get all crazy seriously, its not a big deal. Everyone has their own opinions about everything, so whyyy does everything turn into a huge ass debate. Just grow the fuck up seriously. I hate when people want to act like they hate drama, but they cause it. So someone doesn't agree with you, thats no reason to go on starting a bunch of shit. Its not like that person was posting saying 'omg your a horrible person if you do this' nooooooo, sharing factsssss doesn't mean they were talking directly about you. Grow upppppp she was just trying to show what she learneeeeed that day, doesn't make her crazy & it doesn't mean she was calling you a bad mother if you do that.

Ever since I moved to bliss I have ment the craziest bitchs.

Everyone thinks EVERYTHING IS about them. I mean yes somethings you aren't stupid you know they were deff about you, & thats probably not right they did that, but heyyyy...Im not going to lie I've done it too. But mabye we all start acting mature and message the personly quitly & ask about it so you can talk..instead of causing drama, life would be prettier. But will that happen probably not haha.

No one says you HAVE no be friends with someone, theres not law that EVERYONE to like everyone, but I think there should be a LAW that people have to civil with eachother, haha.

Also, just because you don't get invited to things doesn't mean people don't like you. And dont cry about not being invited when you don't even talk to the person, or when you DO get invited you don't EVER go. & if I dont invite you to hang out, its the end of the world, you can pick up the phone & call me, facebook me, text me..ask ME to hang out. Shitttt. Its not that big of deal if your not invited grow the fuck up, or delete me because I dont need all that bullshit. That is deff one of my biggest problems.."omg but she didn't invite me". Okay if theres 5 of us that hang out all the time, and everyone gets invited but ONE person then YES I do think thats fucked up...but if two people wanna hang out all the time alone, without everyone else..its not a big deal. Seriously.& if you wanna hang out with them so badly why you don't ask them if you can come? Instead of getting all butthurt & crying about it.

Just because I don't talk to for you for a few days, or weeks even DOESNT mean I don't like you, or don't want to be your friend...it means that I'm busy, or I have nothing to say. I have friends back home I hardly talk to, but I KNOW when I go home to visit it will be like I never left! I dont directly go to many peoples fbs so if your not on my newsfeed Im sorry I dont think to go to your page very often. Its a fact of life. They say if your really friends with someone you don't wonder 'omg she hasn't talked to me are we still friends'...yes we are still friends. Until I tell you other wise, we are still friends. And I have even felt this way before..because I know how shit works around here, but from now on Im going to assume we are friends until you tell me otherwise, or delete my ass.

Talking shit, whyyyy talk crap about someone & then say your friends? Sorry but if you talk shit about someone behind their back, your not a friend. I understand venting, and thats totally fine. We all need to vent...however when I walk out of the room there should be nothing neg said about me, because if you have something to say you should have said it. A lot of people are like 'well I told her to her face' okay yesss, you started out telling her to her face 'hey so&so I thought that was shity' then when they leave you go on and on and on about it...you DIDNT tell her to her face. what are you talking about!

My FAVVV 'I never talk about you though' or 'yeah your the only person I have never talked about' hahahahhahaha....Really? & who do you think your kidding. Because theres other people sitting here & we know your lying haha. I don't know why we don't stand up & say "yeahhhh thats a huge lie". But we don't, we sit there & think wow. And then that nonsense builds up, like well she lied directly to her face...and then we get more & more mad.

Haha, my other fav is catching someone in a lie, we know your lying, so just fess up. We all lie, everyone does it...even if we don't mean to. Sometimes I catch myself lying & Im like wait, why did I just say that? And then I have to be like wait I lied, I dont know why I said that...sometimes u just go with it, depending on the situation. Sometimes if you told the truth about how you felt about a certain situation, you wouldn't have any friends. haha.

'I ALWAYS SPEAK MY MIND'-Mabye you do, maybe u don't...Idk. But I know I DO NOT. Lmao...with some things I really do...but A LOT of things I keep my mouth shut about, if I spoke my mind I wouldn't have many friends. & I would be known as the BIGGEST BITCH ever. Like this one certain friends- "aw Im pregnant". Me- "Really? Congrats, your going to be a horrible mother, I can tell just by looking at you with other peoples kids". I have heard people say about other people "Wow they are having a baby, thats a shock, I can't ever see them as parents....poor kid". Bahaha, now thats where someone spoke their mind, but didn't say to the persons face, probably shouldn't have came out of their mouth at all. But I for one am glad that they didn't say to her their faces. Could you imagine telling someone your pregnant & getting that response. haha. So while speaking your mind can be a good thing, it can also be an awful thing. I TRYY (its very hard) not to say things like that, but sometimes, I know as well as others, just slips right out. So Im trying to control saying things that I shouldn't out loud. I can think them all I want (and trust me I will think them) but I shouldn't say them.

The world can be a very ugly place..and when you get a bunch of wives who stay at home & do nothing all day, except hang out with friends...your going to have some drama. I wish it wasn't this way, & maybe someday it won't be...but for now..we have to deal with it. And vent bout it in blogs;)